If you are being abused and want to leave...

• Don't tell your partner that you're thinking of leaving.
• Take your children with you.
• Keep emergency phone numbers with you at all times.
• Set aside money for a taxi, and quarters or pre-paid phone cards for payphones.
• Take valuable documents with you such as passports, birth certificates, marriage certificates, immigration papers, OHIP card, SIN card, bank books and bank cards.
• Bring documents that prove you have been living at the same address with your partner.
• Take your and your kids' prescriptions and medicines.
• Open a bank account in your name or in the name of a person you trust. Make sure that bank statements are not mailed to your home.
• Save as much cash as you can.
• Hide extra clothing, house keys, car keys, money etc., at a friend's house.
• Have an emergency suitcase packed if possible.
• Include some special toys and comforts for your children.
• Copy of lease, rental agreement or house deed insurance.
• School and vaccination records.
• Address book.
• Think about ways you can get out safely during a violent incident.
• If you have a cell phone program it for emergency calls.
• Teach children or friends you trust a code word to use if you are in danger and if possible teach children how to call for help.
• Create a safety plan that works for you and your children. Try and review and/or rehearse your safety plan regularly and if appropriate, practice with your children.
• If you can leave the home for appointments, try to build a support system by attending support groups, workshops or counselling.