How are you being treated? 

Does your boyfriend or girlfriend..	


 ignore your feelings or wishes

 call you names or put you down

 hurt you or hold you down during horseplay and make you 
  feel helpless until you give in or feel humiliated

 tease or ridicule you about things that are important 
  to you

 not keep secrets when you've asked them to

 ignore you or pretend not to hear you

 act more friendly when you're alone than when they are 
  around their friends

 act more friendly when around their friends than when 
  they are alone with you

 keep you away from your friends or put your friends down

 tell other people things you did or said that embarrass 
  you or make you feel stupid

 sulk when you don't do what he/she wants

 blame you when things go wrong in their life	

 threaten suicide when you try to break up with them

 show anger or use threats/violence to get their own way	

 become angry or violent when using alcohol or drugs

 pressure you to do things that make you uncomfortable

 refuse to accept your limits about sexual activity

 get very jealous when you talk to other men/women, 
  even if they're friends

 accuse you of flirting or having sex with others

 make negative comments about how you look or 
  what you wear

 drive fast or do dangerous things to scare you

 tells degrading jokes about women

 refuses to communicate when upset

 not take "no" for an answer

 want to know where you are or who you are with at all times

 threaten to reveal sexual orientation to others

 threaten to reveal HIV status to others?

If so... 
you may be in an abusive relationship.