This "Contract"  is intended to help you to 
think about what you want in a relationship. 
Two people in a relationship can use this Contract 
to understand what each person wants and where 
they disagree.  The clearer you are about what you 
want, the more likely that you will find a 
relationship that is good for you.  
						

DATING
1.  Should every weekend and evening be spent with 
    your girl/boyfriend
2.  Who decides what to do and where to go on a date?
3.  What about expenses?  Who should pay?
4.  If your date always pays for expenses, are you 
    obligated to go along with his or her plans or 
    sexual advances?
5.  How much do you or your date want to use alcohol 
    or other drugs?
6.  Is there any situation in which it would be okay 
    for your date to push you around?  To hit you?
7.  Do you need to know where they are and who they are 
    with at all times?

SEXUAL RIGHTS
1.  Is either person free to say that they do or do not 
    want to go any further sexually?
2.  At what point can a person refuse to have sex?
3.  If both you and a person of the opposite sex agree 
    to have intercourse, whose responsibility is it to 
    use birth control?  
4. If you both agree to have sex, who is responsible for 
   protection from STDs?  

OTHER RELATIONSHIPS
1.  Are you or your boyfriend/girlfriend free to make 
    friendships with other people?  If so how will you 
    deal with jealousy?
2.  Is it alright for you or your girl/boyfriend to make 
    friends with those of the opposite sex?
3.  Do you include each other in those relationships?