What is it? Any behavior, comment, gesture or contact of a sexual nature that could be considered objectionable or offensive. It is an act of hostility, degradation and/or wielding of power expressed in a sexual manner. Over 80% of female students reported they had been sexually harassed in a school setting. Some examples of sexual harassment that high school students have experienced:

< Flashing -a guy whipping down his pants and wiggling his penis < Leering -guy swimming underwater wearing goggles so that he can see the girls' bodies < Sexual gesturing - guy grabbing his crotch with his hands and moving it up and down < Graffiti -pictures of sexual body parts, pornographic pictures, sexual bathroom graffiti < Whistling at a person < Obscene phone calls, e-mails or instant messages < Grabbing, pushing, pinching < Being followed around < Propositions "do you want to go to bed" < Demeaning comments-names like "chick", "slut" or "bitch" < Persistent invitations for a date < Being rated < Sexual joking < Homophobic name calling.

Sexual harassment is part of the continuum of violence and some actions do escalate to sexual assault. Young men sexually harass young women for a variety of reasons including: to show off, to gain power and control, to demonstrate what they think is masculine behaviour, to get away with it. Sexual harassment is illegal. With sexual harassment the law is concerned with the impact of the behaviour, not the intent of the behaviour. For example, you might think the joke is funny but it may be offensive to others. Being sexually harassed has negative effects on the emotional and physical well-being of young women and men. They can experience feelings of frustration, humiliation, fear, loss of self- esteem, anger, and mistrust of the opposite sex. Everyone has the right to decide how to deal with sexual harassment. If someone is harassing you, you can:

- Tell the person who is bothering you that this behavior is not acceptable to you. - Get help from a teacher, the principal, or vice principal. They will help you resolve the issue and if necessary, help you make a formal complaint. - No one has the right to harass you. You don't have the right to harass someone else.

Remember:

-Sexual harassment damages a person's emotional and physical well being. -A compliment makes someone feel good. Sexual harassment does not. -The Human Rights Code of 1981 recognizes that every person has the right to be free from sexual harassment.